Sorry I've been MIA for a couple of days - I know lots of knitting bloggers do it, but it still makes me uncomfortable to miss more than a day. However, as expected, Friday was a b**ch of a day - and to top it off (or begin it!), I fell on black ice as I was watching Dylan cross the street to catch the school bus.
Ouch. I haven't fallen like that for ages. I scraped my knee & really wrenched my back. I'm much better now, but was really achy Friday & Saturday. Luckily Doug can crack my back better than a chiropractor so that helped a lot.
I say "the promise of pictures" because:
1. It's supposed to snow off & on all day to day - I might finally have a cool snow pic like all those bloggers to the north & east of me. Not as deep, perhaps, but still white!
2. The sweater, it is almost complete. I finished the sleeves & knit the neck yesterday. Have I mentioned before how much I dislike picking up stitches for the neckband? There always seems to be one side stitch that goes wonky and it takes me forever to get things lined up correctly. Once that's done, however, my best advice is always "twist 'em when you knit 'em." The stitches you picked up, that is. Seems to work better for me that way - closes any holes that might want to show up. Speaking of what works better, for the first time in my life I mattress-stitched shoulder seams. Someone tell me why the heck I'd never tried that before? I guess desperation is the mother of necessity...or something along those lines. :::wink:::: I tried 4 times to get a seam I liked using back stitch & finally gave up. Mattress stitch worked on the first try. Who would've thunk it? Anyway, a picture of Douglas in his sweater will be forthcoming in a day or two.
I mentioned that Friday was a b**ch of a day. So....what do I do when the sub coordinator at the school asks me if I have a job on Monday? I say, "Not yet." Then she says she needs me in one of the worst classrooms in the school. What do I say then? "Welllllll.....ok, if I have back-up."
Believe me, I'm not Sydney Poitier in "To Sir, With Love", or even Tom Berenger in "The Substitute." They need a warm body in there Monday because their regular teacher is out until after spring break and their regular substitute has had to bail because of family problems of her own. I was very hesitant because I'd subbed there before (the science class from hell) so I spoke with the principal. She told me about some changes they'd made to the classroom and also assured me that I could kick out as many students as I wanted, any time I wanted, to keep order.
That swayed me & I said, "Ok."
My problem with subbing in the middle schools is that I've tried to be nice. I finally realized Friday that "nice" can't have a place in a sub's personality when you're dealing with hormones, attitude & lack of parental guidance. From now on it's "3 strikes & you're out." Kids at this age are a lot like a pack of dogs - you can't show fear and you can't show weakness.
No - I'm not exaggerating - there were two fights in my English classroom on Friday (fists, kicking, etc.), insolence, cursing, etc., etc. And once again, stereotypes are blown out of the water. This is one of the affluent schools - both parents work at high-power jobs, they live in $250,000 - $1,000,000 homes, drive Hummers, and contribute handsomely to the collection plate on Sunday.
The right job, the right church, the right social set, the right salary, won't automatically give you decent children. Hard work, tough rules and a hell of a lot of love will. Middle school is the time kids need their parents the most and, unfortunately, that's the time when most parents relax the reins. I swear it's like a switch is thrown between 5th & 6th grade and I wish every parent could see their "little Johnny" when he is part of the pack.
There - lecture over. I've been stressing over this all weekend and my ulcer can't take much more. (Please - no-one write that I just "shouldn't stress" or that I should "let it go." I can't - I have to work through it & until I have, my stomach suffers!)
Sooooo...I hope you all are having a lovely, fibery weekend. I'll finish sewing that sweater this morning & then work a bit more on Diana. Nat - forgive me - I'm a lousy knit-alonger with the best of intentions. :)
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